We never argue. We discuss.
We’ve been married for nearly thirty years, and somebody overhearing us might think we spend a lot of time arguing. We don’t actually argue; we just have lively discussions over just about everything. As soon as one of us says “let’s choose” or “let’s decide” we know for sure a lively discussion is about to ensue. Like today we wanting to choose a new over the toilet cabinet so got online together to have a browse. Now a miracle may have happened, and we would have agreed on the first bathroom cabinet we saw. But we don’t do miracles; we do discussions.